The Complex Problem of Beauty

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I still have that thought that pops into my mind every now and again that like other person I'm talking to is going to be really disappointed because I'm not attractive enough. It's such a complex problem because we tell our children that looks don't matter yet they go out to the world and every bit of evidence in front of them shows that it does. We're all in a beauty contest that none of us are asked to be in because people comment on my looks when I'm on mott the week, she says.

Welcome to the Wintering Sessions with Katherine May.

This week Katherine chats to Angela Barnes, podcaster, comedian and regular panel guest on Mock The Week (and much more!).

Angela Barnes has zero tolerance for anyone reassuring her that she's pretty - it talks over her lived experience, and does nothing to change her self-perception. Here, she discusses living with Persistent Depressive Disorder, which has made her whole life feel like the drizzly English climate, but which has also made her more able than most to endure the hard-knocks life of a stand-up comedian.

A very cheerful chat which always zeroes in on the important points with lazer focus, picking up on where Angela is in the greater pandemic situation, working with her PDD, building daily frameworks, having a comedy tribe which normalizes certain behaviours and actions, fear of rejection, CBT, entitlement, TV, the perils and - well, perils of social media, and the notion of beauty on a grand scale.

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