Many of us experience a gap between who we are and who we want to be. "What's wrong with me?" we might wonder as we struggle. We might even expect a relationship with Jesus to be full of questions like that, pointing out our flaws in sharp contrast to His high standards. But rather than burdening us with questions of shame, Jesus asks questions like: "What's wounded with you?" "What's out of alignment with you?" "What's keeping you from the life you were meant to live?" And, His teachings and example provide answers and solutions to free us from the quagmire we're in.