
#362 Splurging & Suffering, Is Nikki A Narcissist? & The Ultimate First Date Question
The Nikki Glaser Podcast
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How to Protect Yourself From Love
People with borderline have dealt with every time they get close or have a close relationship, they get hurt and their whole existence is to avoid that pain. The best way to protect yourself from love is to convince yourself, I don't love this person anymore. In fact, that person's a fucking devil who I hate who stinks like shit. If this person died, I'd be happy. Like that's literally what they convince themselves. It sounds like they're both anxious and avoidant attached. Yeah, so people. You might be like, you might be like. But I do have these intense like, I never want to see them again. They're disgust."
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