Is He Unmotivated?

My husband and i both have ad one of our mean conflicts. I'm very motivated and driven sometimes to perfection at tenaties. But he's very unmotivated, especially when it comes to job search. She says he wants a career changed. And u and you know, what is the best way to work on omis? He may actually wish that he could do this stuff, but he may not have the right kinds of structures in place to allow him to do that.