How to Have Sex Without Feelings

When did you have intercourse for the first time? And he kind of screws up his face like he's trying to remember and he plays with his hat he's wearing. Then he says, Friday. He tells me a story about how he met this girl at a party and they tried to hook up and it didn't work. The third time they tried tohook up, she asked him if he'd ever had sex before. She said what did you want your first time to be like? It wasn't an open under question, right? "You can't learn that from a screen"