The Importance of Being Complimentary

When we get really close to someone, we'll dock as it were with people who have the complement of our particular cultural way of acting. So this isn't good for example for either the narcissist or the echo. They actually like being with narcissistic people. It makes them feel familiar and safe and ultimately very miserable. And it's because all the docking sites are filled with people who are coming to a complimentary sort of way of presenting. But the narcissist has nowhere to dock and the echoes have nowhere to dock.