Are You Afraid of Your Spouse's Response?

If we could know for sure the outcome of every person based on every decision, well then it wouldn't be an illusion. But if you're just acting based on guesses and variables that we can't measure, that's kind of an illusion. If you had to do it to travel or keep your job, or make your spouse happy or something, i'll give you that. That wasn't fear based. Except, will you give me that? Being afraid of your spouse's response is a little bit o fear, but not big fear. It's like fear with a little lafh. Now, this is when i think we have to get serious about the ah, the idea that