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Ep 339: The Poetic Feminism of Paromita Vohra

The Seen and the Unseen - hosted by Amit Varma

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The Relationship Between Lust and Eroticism on Dating Apps

"I understood very quickly that a lot of people on dating apps are not having a lot of sex and they're not having good sex for sure," she said. "It's not just about recovering lust but recovering lust with a certain kind of buoyancy and exuberance that we need" She says erotica is tied up with anticipation with a build up with a sense of you know the rituals that go into the whole process. 'If you just sort of try to boil everything down to you know a transactional thing I'll hook up with someone we'll have intercourse then that is lust alone there's no erotica'

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