Having a Newborn Is a Hard Choice

Many of us want to be at the top of mount maslow, but are not investing the time in effort or the patience to actually get there. In your own marriage, you describe a trip to seattle where, in your own analogy, you found yourself starved of ox. It took that moment before i started to get serious about making life better again. And one of the major ways i did it was by recelebrating my expectations, yes, but also re investing in a way that made sure that i was more connected to my wife than we had been.