I didn't even know the first time that I went out to one of these meals with a party promoter that that's what was happening. Even now I talked to my husband or two different people about their experience since men specifically going out and it's so different than what a young woman experiences. And at this stage you know how far were you talking to your parents about some of these situations and what advice were they giving? "There wasn't enough of sort of looking out for each other," she said.