Some people who are emotionally manipulate, and it's not their fault really, because the reason they learned to do this is because people did this ship with them. And so this is where the the, you know, picking up your cross comes from. Because if they feel hurt and they want to feel love, they'll create these other artificial situations which drive people insane. So that's the narcisistic person. They're emotionally manipulative. They like to play the martyr. They make you responsible for their bad behavior. But after dinner, everyone goes to whatever. And then mom shows up, and they're like, honey, please make this pie. Can you help us out? Cause then