Why Are We Scared to Suspend Our Judgment?

i think that in many ways, our church culture is defined by the rules we follow. And unfortunately, that carries over into how do we identify ourselves? We identify ourselves by our rules. And if other people aren't following those rules, then they are not part of the group or or experience and it really leads to judgment. Ah, rather than judge mental you know, as you're talking, i'm realizing how bad i've been at this in my life. Am when when we can shift from looking around ourselves, looking at each other, am comparing with each other, and instead look upward? I anne lamont talks about a, it's not fear that is the opposite of