Can You Let Go of Life?

In 20 12, 20 13 you went from full time youth pastoring on staff at a church to the work that you do now as a spiritual director. That took years of discernment, n listening, paying attention and being willing to dream. I think it woud have been great to have had some one sit down with me and just say, 'It's going to be ok' because deep down i think there's something in them with "you have life" You can let go of this. What kind of things can things hove to let go? A hayou have to tell as well?