In social situations, you're not actually there to serve, right? So that's important. If you adopt fully the same idea is a job interview or giving a speech, you're going to be tuned into just the which is going to make it a poor experience for you. What i would devote yourself to in a social situation is having a good time yourself and creating a good time for other people. But you don't want to make it too lopsided. We see this problem a lot where people are like, you'll emphasize everyone else in the social situation without looking for your own entertainment. In a social situation it's more even, right? You're there to have a good