The Importance of Seeing and Understanding Over Functioning

The first thing is to see it, right? I think it's nice that you read that list because people will probably be like, Oh, crap. So first to just understand it as a problem, like something that I would do a lot when I was parenting the kids when they were younger is I would do it for them because it was less messy and would take less time. Like here, I'll just do it, you know. But it's like, that's not good parenting, of course, because kids need to struggle to do things and to be messy about it at first and to get better at it. You know why then. What is it how does it actually serve