The Little Bullet Metaphors in Coaching

People who were primed with impatience words, they couldn't even last like five minutes before interrupting. When asked about it, they had no idea that they had been primed with language. This is how influenced we are on every fucking level, every moment. So how do we use this with coaching? We want to start to become more aware of the language of the ideas we're priming people with. How do we let the client lead and then support that with everything we got?