You can't sort of force someone else to like you, the most you can really do is work on yourself and make yourself more attractive. And when you feel resentful, you've got to be really careful about the conclusions that you form for all the above ment stuff because our brain is forming conclusions at once. The problem is that we lose sight of things in those states. So this is the kind of thing we're like, emotionally decompress, acknowledge the resentment edge, how bad it feels to actually be crushing it and for it to not matter.