Is Your Husband Agreeing With Your Litter Box?

My husband is acting out of his own sorrow and fear about this, but it's also kind of mean what he said. I'm a firm believer that we could be parents with both of us working full-time. Is it possible for two parents who work full-time to equally share parenting responsibilities? We're nearing a place in our marriage where we don't want the same things. Please sugars, can you provide some guidance?