How to Be a Good Courtier

Never affect friendliness and intimacy with your master. Never approach him in an easy, friendly way or act as if you were on the best of terms. If he chooses to deal with you on this level, assume a wary chumminess. Be frugal in asking those above you for favours. Nothing irritates a master more than having to reject some one's request. It stirs up guilt and resentment. Do not be the court cynic. Wherever you go, people will groan at each new cynical comment. By expressing modest admiration for other people's achievements, you paradoxically call attention to your own. The ability to express wonder and amazement is a rare