How to Let God Use You

I have a pattern of letting people use me. If you, if in your mind, you're thinking God uses me, then at a subconscious level, you will allow people to use you as well. I'm telling you that I have not said it since because I think so differently now. It took me growing in the word and growing in my faith to understand that a lot of the people that use me, God never told me to engage in a relationship in the first place. Thank you. That settles my spirit.