Why Women Choose Assholes Over Nice Guys

We all have this unresolved trauma and we keep experiencing or even recreating mirrors of that original experience so as to try to create resolve around it. This means if a girl had an asshole for a daddy and deep down she always wanted to reform him and feel loved by him and win him over, she will subconsciously find a man who behaves just like him. She's just healed her daddy wound. There is an element of challenge in winning over a guy but actually I don't agree with most people in the world of experts in a relationship when they say that women are after the challenge. So this actually flips a dynamic because the woman becomes the one who's chasing and she begins to chase his