Are You in Control When You're Listening?

i feel stuck between two places. One is that i recently talked to a group and we talked all about how you have power when you 're asking the question and not you're talking. The other experience, just to push on this, icai s what you think? I was rolling with a purple belt who choked me with my own belt. Which is a great metaphor of be careful what you say and what you do. Im, but i think something that b j, brazilian jugits who supports, in terms of what you said, is, don't fight back. You'll lose energy. Yoll, waste energy. That's not in your interests. Trying re direct