Is There a Safe and Secure Place That You Can Go to When You're Dying?

i've been doing some e m d r, a form of therapeutic work that involves more bilateral movement of your eyes as you're encountering trama m. It's very bodily and all so really powerful. A part of m dar is having to find in your body, like, a safe and secure place that you can go to when you're trying to feeally disregulated. When i think about my wedding day, what felt olehearted to me was the delight and the joy and the gravity of the moment. And even if the safety isn't so much, it feels more like that safety of psalm 23, like a feast in the presence of your enemies.