What Dating Advice Do You Have That You Don't Want to Give Up?

I used to believe that I had to make myself small and palatable in order to be understood by the people who I loved. What I learned is that there are people who will see you in both your glamorous post pageant glow, but will also see you in the messy heartbroken everyday nuanced way that you show up. And it's about finding the people who do. Because if anyone that you love ever makes you feel small, then they don't have big enough hands to hold all of that you can bring. So find someone who does, because I promise that they're out there and just consistently show up in all that you are.