"Assessment doesn't exist when you believe that someone is innately trans," she says. "It's really about him in a deeper emotional process, and so after a period of years, we came to this neither of our sons is a neatly transgender" For her older son, the drive for sameness was towards things because it was too vulnerable for him to attach to people. Her younger son wanted to be same as his older brother by saying he was a girl.

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