We were driven by an intense fear of infecting my 94 year old mother in law, who lives near by. So we were really locked down. But the dividend there was that patrick, my son and his daughter in law, lawren, lived a little over a mile away. They were similarly locked down. And that is what saved us,. honestly, because having the grand kids over, having patrick and lorn over, it just felt like a little normal, yes, yes. Then we finally decided that my mother inlaw, who's very healthy and lives on her own, and as every marvel she started life with,  we can't let her die of loneliness