Can We Talk About This Lovel of a Servitude?

i find one of the most disturbing things i ever heard. Can we talk about this lovel of a servitude? Yes, inessentially in a way that is literally keeping as if, like, this person owes you sex - which does not consent. I've definitely felt pressured before because somebody did something nice for me, and ilike, that's probably what they want. And maybe that's the conversation i need to think about in my head. But hearing, seeing that, and hearing that is like, holly, what whell you happened?