How to Get Rid of the Capital P Problem of Capital L Life

There is this feeling of a certain helplessness, of being alone and somewhat confused in an unpredictable way with external world of happiness. And we wonder why we're here, how we got here, and what to do about the capital P problem of capital L life. We can of course try to beat the game on a material basis by becoming very wealthy or very powerful. But it will be noticed that as we succeed in these enterprises we're not satisfied. For those we love are going to die, and so what about it? Is there any way in which we can become masters of the situation?