You Don't Have to Do Something, but It Still Needs to Be Done

"The fact that yu shouldn't have to do something also doesn't mean that, like, the thing doesn't need to be done," she says. "We don't take kindly to misgendering around these parts." If you feel comfortable and safe in those spaces because of who you are, emy wite says, it makes it easier for everyone else to feel that they too can survive.