The Importance of Power Dynamics

The only time that I've ever felt a little bit overwhelmed by somebody's desire is a foot fetishist came in and they were not interested in power dynamics. They were just enamored with feet. And so what happened was I was sitting on the bed and they were on the ground and I kick off my shoes and I put my feet on his face. And then all of a sudden he stands up and like pushes the feet into his face and me onto the bed. That was the first time that somebody had taken an assertive action. But it was the only moment where I realized that, okay, so there's a difference between somebody who's there for the fetish and somebody who

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