How to Write a Memoir of Forgiveness

i learned the word magnanimity in a poetry class. By then i'm a hippop dancer trying to drop out and growing up, and in the club's a valet. I think what helps is that my first draght of this memoir was very angry. That might add add something to this conversation. It was a different memoir. And i had to go back, almost like you do with a rolling pin when you're e rolling out dough,. Like from h beginning to end, again and again; try to find the spaces where we where i can feel magnanimity toward what happened. Because, yes, it's a memoir, but this story i'm about to tell is