Nice Guys Versus Mind Speakers

Nice guys verses mind speakers. It's good to be a nice guy, but the way you word it and describe it is not always in the best position to be. Why do nice guys or nice girls want to keep the interaction positive? It's because they want to be liked. They want to be approved of. And that's exactly what i was. I was a huge, nice, nice guy. But if we look under the hoot, then we also see that the the intent, intention is not very nice. This is something i wanted to get rid of. We can change this.