If you don't have someone that's willing to row the boat with you you can't really get very far if you have like there's three stages of this right let's just say you got a boat and you're in the boat with your spouse. A lot of young bucks will give up on their dreams for this person because they stop moving towards where they want to go but then it ends up ruining their lives. Being aligned with someone is super super important that's the first part how to support them dude That's a unique situation in every single case so be patient being tolerant and understanding investments are being made.