062: The 5 Core Issues from Pia Mellody and RLT with Kim Ploussard
The Couples Therapist Couch
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Relationships: Needs and Wants
As an adult relationships we often express things that we need but they're really wants. And you certainly can have a need and a want line up like you need physical exercise. Some people love cooking, right. They just love it. It brings them a lot of joy. So if you're not taking care of around needs and wants as a child and help those to surface then you can have a problem with interdependence in a relationship. That's how it shows up relational. The last one is based on children being very spontaneous and open when they come into the world. You moderate out of control of being in control of yourself and others or you can just get totally shut down and none
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