How to Know if You Should Get Help

If your mind jumps to comparison and says, Oh, but you're saying that everything is getting harder for everybody, I should be doing better. And how do I know I should bedoing better? Because other people are doing better. So why shouldn't I be able to do it? That once again is Asian conditioning because what do Asian parents do? They make their kids feel like they don't deserve help. If there's a 4.0 kid who has a problem, if he's the top of the class and number one in this and number first in this then they're worth investing in. But if you're just an ordinary kid with super ordinary expectations than any kind of help may