Transformative Choices: Navigating Parenthood and Philosophy

This chapter explores the complexities of transformative experiences, particularly in relation to parenting and personal identity. Through reflections on their journey from chemistry to philosophy, the speaker grapples with the decision-making process surrounding parenthood, contrasting it with other life choices. The narrative emphasizes the unpredictability and emotional challenges inherent in major life choices, underscoring that each path carries its unique set of benefits and struggles.

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L.A. Paul is the Millstone Family Professor of Philosophy and Professor of Cognitive Science at Yale University. She is also the author of Transformative Experience. Her work on transformative experience has been covered by The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Guardian, NPR, and the BBC, among others. And in 2024, she was profiled by The New Yorker.

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Timestamps:

[00:00;00] Start

[00:05:55] The role of Quentin Smith.

[00:09:56] Early philosophy class disasters.

[00:13:34] How is philosophy relevant to the average person?

[00:20:17] A correspondence experiment with philosophers.

[00:25:29] The role of philosophy in modern times.

[00:27:50] The vampire problem.

[00:39:31] What you can't expect when you're expecting.

[00:42:36] When transformative experiences happen without our consent.

[00:48:12] Choosing between potentially transformative experiences.

[00:52:09] How Laurie made the choice to have children.