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Encore: Sex & Aging

Dear Sugars

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I Love the Fact That She's My Name, but I Would Never, I Been No H Haahahaha. Nice to Know.

A letter from a woman who has a great boy friend, but she doesn't oat to have sex with him. After four or five decent years of sex with my second wife, things slowed down at first. Eventually she started feeling pain during intercourse, and we stopped having sex. I am more than a little confused, ashamed and saddened about being the one who is always attempting to initiate physical intimacy. It does make me feel inadequate, ugly, unattractive, like there's something wrong with me. And in any case, when penetration is no longer an option, we're both left feeling a bit cheated. With question, i would, by a very wide margin, rather have a sex

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