Forgiveness Is Remembering

Forgiveness does not mean that the relationship goes back to how it was. Sometimes forgiving actually means new boundaries where they are not allowed in your territory like they used to. Oftentimes a person, ah, there another impulse, and a is, i am i don't want to let them get away with what they did. But when we don't forgive, it's like letting them rent free space in our head. They are getting away withwhat they did. You see, forgiveness is actually breaking a cycle. Forgiveness is like interrupting the loop. It's setting them free. Otherwise we are handing out incredible power to people for what they've done. In the best