The Unique Oneness of Community and Authentic Friendship

Host Steve Cuss and Dr. Kyle Strobel disrupt self-help versions of spirituality and call us back to genuine encounters with Christ. Together we explore how hidden dynamics like assumptions, reactivity, and self-reliance often sabotage spiritual formation—and why cultivating watchfulness in prayer and scripture is the antidote. Drawing from Colossians 4:2, early evangelical practices, and personal stories, Dr. Strobel shows how honesty about our emotions in real time opens the door to true transformation. We also name the dangers of “guruism,” guilt-driven church culture, and unrealistic expectations, pointing instead to authentic growth rooted in humility, friendship, and God’s presence in the ordinary.

Episode Resources:

• Read Dr. Strobel’s Formation Substack

• Read Dr. Strobel’s book The Way of the Dragon or the Way of the Lamb: Searching for Jesus’ Path of Power in a Church that Has Abandoned It

• Read Dr. Strobel’s book Where Prayer Becomes Real: How Honesty with God Transforms Your Soul

• John Coe’s free online Bible courses

• An introduction to the life and writings of John Cassian (video)

• Read Colossians 4:2

• Read Galatians 3

• Read Colossians 2

• Read Psalm 73

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