Dealing with other people's anger is about setting appropriate boundaries and not reacting to your own fear. If you've been dependent on some one who's angry with you, do you understand that? You bide your time, play it safe. And once you g t f o and they no longer have power over you, their tune will change. That's how you deal with anger once you become independent. I'm feeling angry because i've worked with a lot of people who were in yal's shoes, who have been in unfair power dynamics. And so i'm listening to that anger, and i'm using that to help me speak.