The Power of Secure Attachment in Relationships

If you're with somebody who's securely attached and you have an insecure attachment style, then that's gonna be easier because one person isn't like as traumatized about relationships as the other person is. "I was drawn to those people because it did make me feel powerful to be able to deny the affection and have them still want me," she says of anxious preoccupied people. 'It really has nothing to do with the individual person'