If you don't feel that you're sexually competent, it's very difficult for you to feel like you will be giving her a gift of your sexuality. Sex should not feel like, can I get something from you? It should feel like an even exchange. Another piece of this is like, where do you need to clean up and offer,. like, offer to restore your integrity with another person?

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