What's It Like to Be Around Me?

When my son became a ten ager and got testy like that, i found myself just being almost speechless. I thought, what's happening here? What? Why did i losing my voice? And i realized, this is reminding me of my daduh? And i never had a voice around my dad. So i think we have to be aware as parents, especially when our kids are adolescent, where are my weaknesses? Because hi're going to tell you, so you might as well own up to em and have open discussions with them. You need a parent that can say, that's enough. How do i determine my children style?