Leaders need close friends who are not sycophants. They have to nurture that in their lives, otherwise they'll get confused about what is right and what is false. Find somebody on staff of a church who has challenged the pastor when was the last time? And i'd also add this, i have seencarismatic pastors fall i have seen churches that were on point with their doctrine collapse. If you're seeing those qualities, that's going to count for a heck of a lot more than the dynamism of the youth ministry or the charism of the sunday morning service. Those are the values that excuse me, bat when yo, when you're by your fruits, you