How to Remove Yourself From a Situation That's Taken a Toll on You

I want to say one very proud of you for being like this isn't offering me the security I need. You can only support people so much before it starts taking a toll on you trying to force them to allow you to support them does that make sense. There are some things that people need to do on their own and deal with on their own and where that line is drawn is when the person who's quote helping in the situation feels uncomfortable and insecure about the relationship they feel like maybe they can't provide the kind of support that this person needs. moving on is not easy especially if you still care about this person and it almost feels like loose ends you know that's really fucking hard