Were Were Made a Fool of by Life?

We are routinely made a fool of by life for our preconceived notions. How many people do we know who ended up with someone very different than the kind of person they thought they would end up with? And they're happy? They're not. It's all these preconceived notions that kind of tie us up in an idea of what we want, instead of us being able to be present in our love lives with the people we actually meet and what they have to offer. That may surprise us.