This is how it always is

This Is How It Always Is is a novel that explores the life of a family of seven, including parents Rosie and Penn and their five children, with a focus on their youngest child, Claude, who later identifies as Poppy.

The story delves into the family's realization and acceptance of Poppy's gender identity, the challenges they face, and the ways in which their lives are transformed.

The novel spans multiple settings, including Madison, Wisconsin, and Seattle, and incorporates elements of fairy tales and real-life struggles.

It highlights the complexities of parenting, the importance of unconditional love, and the ongoing process of growth and acceptance within the family and their community.