In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman delves into the fun and crucial topic of eroticism. Building on her previous discussion of nine competencies necessary for a great sex life, Jessa focuses specifically on the ninth competency: exploring what truly turns you and your partner on. She defines eroticism as more than just physical acts but the subtleties and energies that arouse us. Jessa provides strategies to identify and discuss erotic preferences with your partner, encouraging a shame-free and understanding conversation. She emphasizes the importance of finding overlap in erotic preferences to enhance intimacy and enjoyment in intimate relationships. The episode includes valuable tips like sharing scenes from media and using a 'yes, no, maybe' list to navigate these discussions.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex

00:47 Exploring Eroticism: The Ninth Competency

02:20 Understanding Your Erotic Template

05:21 Communicating with Your Partner

07:04 Finding the Overlap and Playing Together

09:50 Conclusion and Resources

Resource bundle, including Yes/No/Maybe list: https://www.intimacywitheasemethod.com/pl/2147554402

Podcast with Michael Bader:

https://bettersexpodcast.com/179

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More info and resources:

Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass

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