#5549

Mentioned in 5 episodes

I Kissed Dating Goodbye

Book • 1997

In 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye', Joshua Harris argues against the conventional dating scene, suggesting it often leads to superficial relationships and emotional harm.

Instead, he advocates for a 'courtship' approach that involves greater parental involvement, group dates, and a focus on purity and marriage intentions.

However, Harris later apologized for the book, acknowledging its flaws and the harm it caused to many readers by instilling fear and promoting a legalistic approach to relationships.

Mentioned by

Elisabeth Elliot

Mentioned in 5 episodes

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